Sunday, 21 December 2008

Friendship Policy

Do you have false friends?

Do you want friends who take whatever that they can get from you, give very little but ask you for much, do what is required only out of obligation and are your friends for their own advantage?

Want friends who pay lip service?
Do you want friends who claim to have been good friends in the past and promise to be good friends in the future with you? Do you want friends who try to gain favour with kind but empty words and when they are called upon, they say they are unable to help?

There are also friends who flatter. Friends that approve of wrong-doing and approve or disapprove of doing right, whichever that will benefit them only.
Do you want friends who only speak well of you in your presence and speak ill of you to others when you are not around?

Do you also want friends that will bring ruin to you by being your companion for indulging in drinking, for excessively frequenting places of entertainment and for indulging in gambling?

In summary: The friends who pay lip-service, flatter and bring ruin are your false friends. They are not your true friends but enemies that should be avoided just as you avoid a dangerous path.

Below is my friendship policy for all my friends.

I am generous, willing to share, speaking with kind words, helpful, sincere and honest. I will take care of you and protect your property when you are vulnerable, I will not abandon when you in times of need. I will respect and show consideration for your family.

I can protect you and your possessions when you are vulnerable. I am there when you are troubled. I provide generously when there is a need. I remain the same in good times and in bad too. I trust you with my secrets. I can be trusted with your secrets. I do not abandon you in times of trouble and may even give my life for you.
I give good counsel by restraining you from doing wrong and encourage you to do what is right.

I am compassionate by sympathising in your misfortune and rejoicing in your good fortune.

In summary, I am friend who will helps, stay in good times and in bad.

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